Exactly. It's quite something how, at the beginning of a relationship, it's "I don't mind flying in Y". Then for whatever reason you end up in J whilst she is back in Y and it becomes "I want to sit together next time". Since you won't go to the back of the bus it becomes booking two J tickets. Then she travels on her own and is "I have lots of luggage, can you please book me a J award". With that kind of inflation of expectations, there's no way I could afford children!